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Ms.G2015
Savvy March 2016

Sunday daytime or evening wedding?

Ms.G2015, on February 26, 2015 at 4:32 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 28

That's the current issue at hand. I have never been to a daytime wedding. I have always felt evening weddings are more romantic and dimmed and candles show more people drink more. The venue manager told me it's better to start early and have people on their way home since it's a sunday by 6pm. What are your thoughts? Fiancé thinks nobody will show up that early anyway only the older guests lol. Isn't it much more fun to look forward to your wedding all day especially when you are not a morning person like me Smiley sad

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Latest activity by Future Mrs. Y, on March 1, 2015 at 11:46 AM
  • Finally mrs.jkr
    Master June 2025
    Finally mrs.jkr ·
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    I'm having a daytime wedding, been to a couple daytime weddings and they were fine and beautiful. I would say that you have the choice between people not wanting to come because it's earlier (although you can have it 2-6, 1-6 whatevs... or many people leaving early in order to get home Smiley smile

    Sorry, I know it's a tough choice

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  • Lennox
    Super May 2015
    Lennox ·
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    I would say a daytime wedding. Doesn't have to be crazy early but I would say focus event from 1pm-8pm. If you are having a large number of out of town guests though I would try to wrap up earlier as some people may want to head back home for Monday. If you know this isn't a big issue though you should feel free to move it a little bit later.

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  • Lara
    Master July 2015
    Lara ·
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    It's difficult if you want to incorporate a meal into it. You could do your ceremony like at 3:30pm and then have an early dinner and the guests will be on their way by 8 or so?

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    We do late morning and evening weddings every day on every weekend. In the venues that don't have two events on a day, the Sunday ones usually start somewhere around 12-3ish.

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    Master October 2013
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    I'd agree to the earlier side. I get up at 5 am Mondays so I go to bed at 9 pm. I would have to leave early to get home. If you were family or BFF, I might take Monday off, but otherwise I'd probably just head out early. If a lot of people do that, it could kind of kill the party anyway.

    Lara's timing suggestion isn't bad. Early dinner would be fine, and 8 should still be early enough for people to get home and rest for work the next day.

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
    Rachel DellaPorte ·
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    The older guests are retired. They don't have to get up in the morning. The guests you have to worry about are the ones working a F/T job. No later than2:00 PM, and have it wrapped up 8:00 PM (and expect some people to pull out at 7:00PM).

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  • Mrs. A & J
    Master December 2014
    Mrs. A & J ·
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    For Sunday, definitely daytime. Most people wouldn't participate in the party vibe on a Sunday evening. You could do lunch, with yummy food and light drinks.

    Honestly, unless we were REALLY close friends, I would want to be home by 5 on Sunday.

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  • FFW
    Master August 2016
    FFW ·
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    Sunday brunch would be a nice touch and start ceremony at noon/12:30 short happy hour w/ brunch drinks & fruit and brunch at 2pm, done by 5. Sunday is the day (other than church) people just want to relax and prepare for the week. I think earlier would be better (unless Monday is a holiday)

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  • Julia T
    Master August 2015
    Julia T ·
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    My wedding is on Saturday and it's going to end at 8pm. I don't think there's anything wrong with a daytime wedding. For a Sunday wedding I would prefer for it to be earlier. I love the idea of a brunch wedding on a Sunday.

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    I know there are always people who say they are absolutely fine partying on a Sunday night. In real life, Friday night is a party night. When you wake up on Saturday, you're psyched because it's party night number two. Sunday night is not, and never will be, a party night for the general, employed population. An afternoon wedding is lovely, but it has a different vibe than Friday or Saturday. it's just the way the majority of working individuals are wired.

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  • Angel_D
    Master October 2015
    Angel_D ·
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    We just love the idea of a sunday afternoon brunch reception- over by 5pm. theres still will be drinks and music/dj just not a crazy night time party- which is fine by us. who doesnt love a classy day party with good food and a couple drinks!

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  • Jessica
    Master May 2016
    Jessica ·
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    Personally I don't mind a Sunday evening wedding but I guess older people might. I'm having a Saturday afternoon wedding from 12-5:30 & I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I know my guests will still party hard lol

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  • F
    Dedicated April 2015
    FutureMrsC ·
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    If you want night. Go for night. The people who would've stayed and partied Saturday will stay and party sunday. My fh's godmother did a Sunday night and she said it was beautiful and fun and and lot of people stayed.

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  • Danielle
    VIP September 2015
    Danielle ·
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    We have to be out of our venue by 9pm on a Saturday so our wedding will start at 3.

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  • MzRosaLu
    Master July 2016
    MzRosaLu ·
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    Our wedding will be a Sunday brunch. 11 am ceremony and 12-4 reception. I guess if people are "not morning people," they just won't come and we can do without them. Shouldn't really be an issue though - it's just one day.

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  • OG Mrs.K (2.0)
    Master September 2014
    OG Mrs.K (2.0) ·
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    We were married on a Sunday - Ceremony start time was 5:30 p.m., with BP photos at 6:00 ish (just in time for the sun to start setting), appetizers and cocktail hours for guests during that time, and dinner in the reception ballroom at 6:30.

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  • Lauren R.
    VIP August 2015
    Lauren R. ·
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    I've been to both. The evening wedding ran 5PM to 10PM and people were fine. In fact, some stayed even later. We had a ball. I much preferred it over the daytime wedding. It also allowed me to get things done during the day so that I could relax and enjoy myself later. Really, though, I think this will depend on your crowd.

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  • FutureMrsMerritt
    VIP September 2015
    FutureMrsMerritt ·
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    Mine is a Sunday from 3-8 pm! I didn't want to end it to early or to late so 8 seemed right.

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  • Cyndi Lou
    Super October 2018
    Cyndi Lou ·
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    I love daytime weddings. I am a morning person and don't like to be out late (lol... I'm getting old ;-) that's what FH says when I start getting antsy to leave cause it's getting late)

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  • MrsE
    VIP August 2014
    MrsE ·
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    Mine was on the Sunday before Labor Day. Ceremony was at 2. Reception from 4-midnight.

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