Strippers

I refuse to have one for this reason. It's just not me. But If he trusts you there shouldn't be a problem.

Did you talk to him about it beforehand? Did you know he wasn't comfortable with strippers being there?

I don't think FH would be upset but I don't want one.

1.) I'm not a prude but I don't want to be groped or have penis bouncing at me by anyone but FH and I've seen them at other bachelorette parties and that's usually how it goes.

2.) I think it's a respect thing personally. I trust FH but I would be hurt if he asked for a stripper. I wouldn't be mad, just sad lol

I mean, I feel like it is something you should have discussed with your FH if you planned your bachelor party.

But if you did not plan your bachelorette party, you really had nothing to do with it, so it isn't your fault. I would just talk to him and explain what happened. I am sure he will come around.

Fh and I has talked about this (after we left a female strip club) and he doesn't have a problem with it but I definitely do. I just don't see the fun in sweaty men parading there junk in my face.

I've never understood the whole "last fling before the ring" idea. If you want to see other men/women dancing naked in front of you, that's something you should be doing before any ring or relationship. I know it's supposed to be funny, but I find it disrespectful, personally.

No way am I having anything like this. And thankfully my girls know me well enough to know this would make me uncomfortable. I'm sure people mean well when they plan this, but it's just not my thing.

I asked my FH if he'd mind and he said he wouldn't then asked me if I would mind and I was like uh...yes...so that put an end to that lol was it a surprise that there were strippers? Or was this something you just didn't mention beforehand?

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We both agreed that strippers weren't a problem for us. I know that DH went to a strip club during his bachelor party. I would have loved for there to be strippers at mine, but I had 3 bridesmen (though one is gay) and the girls who planned it decided that with a mixed group, we'd do a pleasure party and see a drag show instead. It was still a lot of fun.

Quadruple post. Go home, Wedding Wire. You're drunk.

I'm not a prude, but I was a little miffed that FH's groomsmen took him to a strip club at his bachelor party. Only he and one other groomsman aren't married, so I thought it was a little disrespectful of the other groomsmen to plan a strip club trip (especially since I know some of their wives would not be pleased)

Yupp I'm sure my FH would be butt-hurt if I went to a male strip club.

Yet I know his friends will take him to a female strip club and I will be butt-hurt.

Mine wouldn't be, and I don't care if he has them either. I'm personally not into the whole male stripper thing, but I feel like my girls are going to plan to go to a male review when we go to Vegas.

They're not my thing and I didn't have a bachelorette party but my BILs and some other friends took H to a strip club. I really don't care. His hands and dick stayed to himself and I had no concerns that they wouldn't.

Personally, IMO. I don't believe in this whatsoever. To me it's like unfaithful. But everyone's different.

I wouldn't care if he had strippers so I suspect he'd not care if I did- not likely to happen, but if it did it wouldn't be a big deal.

I don't think FH would have a problem with it but strippers so aren't my idea of a good time. I'd rather go on a growler tour or stand up paddle boarding for my bachelorette.

We are going to a Thunder from Down Under show for mine. Not quite a stripper. And I don't think I'd want one, personally. FH doesn't mind the show, but would be upset about the stripper. And vice versa.