I used to stretch my ears and they have not grown back. The holes are not huge but they are big enough to where I can't wear heavy dangling earrings but if a stud or hoop (or the back to a stud or hoop) is small enough, it will go through my ear. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could shrink my lobes back or maybe what earrings I could wear? I'm scared that I might lose an earring on my wedding day. 