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Devoted April 2017

Step Daughter Dilemma

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MeetMrsMyers, on March 4, 2017 at 9:59 PM

How do you ladies get along with your soon to be step children? My youngest step Daughter just said " I wish would

How do you ladies get along with your soon to be step children? My youngest step Daughter just said " I wish would would just give you a chance." Umm, this is news to me that she didn't like me to begin with?! She is 24, married with her own family, and lives in FH's home town. He moved one state over when we got engaged. I just know she's going to start some shit, with some drama during the wedding. I have maintained my stance on staying completely neutral when it comes to his children. Don't get me wrong, I want them to like me, but at the same time, I refuse to compromise her dad and mines happiness on our big day. Especially over some bull shit. Ok rant over... I've always treated and loved them like my own, even though I do not have children. Any advise? ETA: autocorrect and wine is hell?!

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Devoted September 2017
NevadaCityBride · on March 5, 2017 at 7:03 AM
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As an adult step daughter I can say it took me a long time to warm up to my step moms. It wasn't because I didn't like either of them, it's more that I was reserving judgement. I didn't really get to know them well enough to open up until after the wedding. Pp are right, kids are protective. Keep showing a kind caring attitude towards them and their dad and you'll win them over.
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