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Just Said Yes July 2017

Spaghetti?

Shayla, on August 20, 2016 at 9:37 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 30

Is spaghetti for dinner at the reception too laid back? Or trashy for lack of a better word?

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Latest activity by Ileia, on June 24, 2021 at 3:43 AM
  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    It's messy and difficult to eat, so that takes it off my list of acceptable reception food. There are plenty of other shapes of pasta that you could use instead of spaghetti.

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  • StephanieSky
    VIP March 2017
    StephanieSky ·
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    As long as your not cooking it yourself it sounds fine to me.

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  • BeachDreams
    Master May 2017
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    Pasta is totally fine. Many people here are doing pasta bars.

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  • Kmess
    Master October 2015
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    Would you just be serving spaghetti? If so, then it seems cheap to me. Regardless i would go for a different pasta shape or tortelini or something

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  • MTR
    Devoted October 2016
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    We are having a pasta bar. My family is Italian and my fiancé and I love spaghetti

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  • Leah
    Savvy September 2017
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    Spaghetti is messy, but if your crowd isn't that fussy, it's fine. I love spaghetti!

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  • Crescent 1894
    VIP March 2016
    Crescent 1894 ·
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    I went to a self catered lasagne reception once. They served the food out of aluminum pans and ran out of bread, lasagne, and someone ran out to buy more bottles of Pepsi halfway through. It was pretty bad. If this helps any, it was slightly on the trashy side.

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  • Celia Milton
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    No. It's too messy and not enough for an entire wedding. How about for the rehearsal dinner?

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  • MizzzCara
    Master June 2017
    MizzzCara ·
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    I agree that pasta is fine but spaghetti seems too messy.

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  • SailawaySomppi
    VIP April 2018
    SailawaySomppi ·
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    I'd probably pick a different pasta. Maybe rigatoni or ziti as they would be less messy. You could get really fancy with farfalle. But then, Id be the first one to spill sauce on my white dress.

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  • BecomingKrueger
    Master March 2017
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    As a guest, I would rather there be a pasta bar than just spaghetti.

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  • Future Mrs. V
    Expert October 2016
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    I would be too afraid of any of the sauce splashing on my dress!

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  • Private User
    Savvy May 2017
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    Spaghetti sauce with a different noodle? With that said, yes, spaghetti is messy but Spaghetti is delicious and if Spaghetti is what you want for your wedding there is NOTHING wrong with it and definitely not trashy. It's your day...you do you.

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
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    Sorry Brandy, but you do you doesn't work for weddings. You think of your guests for weddings.

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  • Ashley
    Expert August 2017
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    Nothing wrong with that. We are having soul food and then spagetti and chicken tenders for kids. Its your wedding. I love spaghetti so I would be super happy at your wedding!

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  • MissWtoMrsH
    VIP July 2017
    MissWtoMrsH ·
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    Spaghetti is messy! Please don't serve it.

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  • Jay Farrell
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    I love spaghetti.....but too messy for the reception dinner I'm afraid.

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    Master January 2017
    SnowQueen ·
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    Pasta is great I just lean towards a cleaner one, but I love pasta stuff.

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  • Amber
    Dedicated April 2017
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    Have bibs! And wet naps!

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  • LaKessia
    Super October 2016
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    I agree with @Celia. The two weddings that I was in we had spaghetti & a salad for the rehearsal dinner.

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