Soo upset! I don't like my fathers wife!

*jeopardy theme song*

Waitinggggg

My aunty (dads sister) said his wife may have thrown it away, and changed their number so I wouldn't be able to contact my dad. That she does that all the time.

Also that since they moved away, she's tried to get my aunty thrown in jail claiming she does drugs and drives kids to school. F-N A$$H***

Anyway...I just need to rant! I sooo dislike his wife. Its like every chance she gets she tried to move my dad farther and farther away from me and our daughter, because of jealousy

The things she has done goes on and on....above is just a few things off the top of my head.

Its just sad....I really wish my dad would have found someone that has a better mind and heart. I feel that he married her because he didn't want to end up alone in life.

They're always fighting and he's always calling me telling me that she put him out of the house (that he pays for btw). Its just sick sick sick.

Does anyone in your family have a different way to contact him? Or live anywhere near him to give him the invitation/tell him to call you?

I'm sorry you're going through this; she sounds like a real peach and then some.

I hope she wasn't invited, even if she is his wife. Doesn't sound like someone you want around on an important day like a wedding.

I did get a hold of his sister and she managed to call his wifes daughter. However, when she talked to the daughter she could hear my dad wife arguing in the background.

I just hope the wifes daughter relays the message, as now I'm just waiting for his call.

Trust me, I sooo wanted to not invite her. But I knew if I didn't my dad may take it in the wrong way, and I end up hurting him.

I had a conversation with him a few months ago (I took a while because I had a hard time trying to tell him) about how he wouldn't be the one to walk me down the aisle. I know it hurt him because I could hear it in his voice....he did say he was perfectly okay with it, and that he may not even be able to come to our wedding. I told him I'm sending the invitation anyway, and just to try and make it...even if its just you.

But the thing is, he's my dad and I love him dearly even if he hasn't been there for a lot of things in my life (my mom had custody of me since I was 4) or my daughters.

He was only there when I gave birth, but that was it.

***sorry typos, I had to fix them***

Well you're either going to have to accept he won't be there, accept he'll be there with her or hope he divorces hers. There is anything any of us can do to change the situation.

I've accepted the fact that he may or may not be able to make it. Its nothing I'm going to hold against him. However I don't think he'll divorce her anytime soon. Unless a miracle happens and he realizes that marrying her was a mistake that is costing him his family.

Sorry for the post...I just had to get it out and rant a little.