Social Distancing

Honestly, from other things you've posted and now topped off with this cavalier attitude of his toward your health, I do not understand why you're with this man.

My husband and I are still working at our office/work location, I go in maybe 2 or 3 days a week but my husband has to go 5 days a week. My mother lives with us and has a compromised immune system, we do not have any company at all. We're already putting ourselves at more risk than we'd like to by having to come to work. If my partner did not back up putting my safety first I'd have some really strong feelings about it. We get home from work and immediately go up to our room undress, throw our clothes it the hamper and shower. We wash our clothes pretty often now so that it just doesn't stay there. We're not only protecting my mother but ourselves who can also have a negative reaction to this disease. I would literally lock myself away in the room and express to the friends why you are not coming out. I'd feel disrespected that as the one at a higher risk no one would do a little more to protect me, but no one will protect you like you protect yourself. Don't participate, let them know that you are in an uncomfortable situation, if they're your friends and care for you they should understand and respect it.

You are correct, and, to be very blunt, your FH is putting YOU at risk by doing this. He cannot control where his friends are, and who they have contact with, so they could be exposing both of you.

If he wants to play games with them, there are a lot of virtual options, now, so you can play over video chat.

The ONLY reason for people to come over right now would be to drop off supplies or provide care if you were unable to.... and even then, they should have masks and gloves.

Since you are immunocompromised, you need to make this a very strict rule. Make it clear that he could KILL YOU with this behavior. And I'm not trying to exaggerate, here, this is scarily true. Make it an ultimatum. Either he stops this, because it is *endangering your life*, or he goes and lives at his friends' house until this is all over.

(If you need another bolster, I am prone to pneumonia, and both DH and my father are terrified I'll get sick - dad is over 70, btw - so DH actually turned down a transfer and extra pay at his job, because, as he said to his boss, "I could kill my wife if I bring home the virus.")

As someone just outside NYC, in the worst hit area of NJ.... make it your relationship or his fun.