Okay, as the entire world knows we are Supposed to be socially distancing from one another.
In MY mind this means ANYONE who does NOT live with you does Not come over.
In my fiancé’s mind this means having his friend and his friends live-in girlfriend come over 2-4x a week for use of our home gym and dinner. And maybe a board/card game after.
What does it mean to YOU, and what does it mean to Your Significant Other??? If it is like us- how are you handling that? If You are the “it won’t happen to me if this one person comes over” what could change your mind?
I am at higher risk because of underlying medical issues- heart mainly- and am terrified of getting sick. YES! I have expressed that to fiancé in text, email, in person calmly, crying and angrily. NO it has NOT worked- as his friend and gf are coming over, yet again, for gym and dinner. ( it is a date night for them! Meanwhile I have been locked inside, minus the 3 dr appts I’ve had, since March 15)
FH is 53, I am 41 and his “darling” 23yo daughter live together. She has been on my side( we HATE each other btw) for most part in this. But won’t tell daddy that usually. Her immune compromised 25yo brother lives away in his own apartment.
I don’t know what to do. I’ve shown him articles, videos, and data- no help.
I am sooo frustrated I am crying! I am scared af that WHEN I get sick I will be one of the ICU patients. He is playing Russian roulette with my, our, health.
Just need some support, NOT negativity please.