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Imars2Be
Devoted September 2016

So over planning.

Imars2Be, on August 12, 2016 at 10:22 PM Posted in Planning 0 48

Does anyone else feel burnt out on planning? I'm just so ready to be married and get back to normal life. Everytime someone asks me about what I need to do or what I have left I feel so annoyed and then I feel horrible for being aggravated about it. I just don't wanna hear about it anymore. Anyone else?

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Latest activity by Madison, on September 19, 2019 at 6:02 PM
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    Just Said Yes November 2017
    Ashley ·
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    I'm just beginning my wedding planning and I'm already right there with you.

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  • Tiffany
    Super October 2017
    Tiffany ·
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    I'm over a year away and people are asking me what I have left to do. I think they're just trying to make conversation. You're probably just stressed! Your wedding is just around the corner! Try to enjoy this next month, you will be married before you know it! Smiley smile

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  • Michelle
    Savvy July 2017
    Michelle ·
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    Right there with you! Still have almost a year to go, who knew there was so much to do haha

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    Devoted November 2016
    Private User ·
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    I've been reaching that point for over a month. I'm in the mode of paying all of our vendors just to be done with it all!

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  • Imars2Be
    Devoted September 2016
    Imars2Be ·
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    All I have left are honeymoon plans and waiting for rsvps! I understand people just want to help but I'm just done hearing about it! My FMIL even has her own planning notebook! Like Wtf are you writting??

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  • CatBones
    Expert July 2020
    CatBones ·
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    We haven't told most people we're engaged because it's just so far out. We were planning to tell people in two years(and buy an engagement ring then). But after all the stories I hear on here I'm like maybe we should tell them a year before. Or let them be surprised when they get a STD.

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  • I'm Mrs Shuey
    VIP September 2016
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    When I get asked...I just tell them I'm done and ready to get married. That shuts them up.

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  • Stephanie
    Expert April 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    Had a rough day today. Definitely over the planning. (Lady hormones don't help...I'm wayyyyy too emotional and dramatic I'm even grossing myself out)

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  • Future Mrs. Riley
    Dedicated July 2024
    Future Mrs. Riley ·
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    Ughhh worst part of wedding planning... 20 people who didn't respond on time

    What is wrong with people?????

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  • Imars2Be
    Devoted September 2016
    Imars2Be ·
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    Yes. I'm so emotional and it's hard to keep it together so close to the day! !

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  • MrsCalderon
    VIP December 2016
    MrsCalderon ·
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    I was like that before I found my venue. I was so excited that I found an all inclusive venue that's doing everything for me. I had mentioned to FH that I can't wait till the wedding cuz the stress was hard to handle. He totally took it the wrong way like I wasn't happy to marry him. I'm happy to say THANK GOD I'm not stressing like that because there'd be a good amount of fights between FH and I. I give all of you brides out there who are planning everything to the T props!

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  • Tiffany
    Super August 2016
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    I keep repeating "just one more week" over and over. I'm ready for things to go back to normal. And people are still asking if I need help with anything or if I need them to get anything.

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  • Ericka
    Expert December 2016
    Ericka ·
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    Im 4 months out and just aggravated because i know theres still stuff do do im just focusing on paying everyone off thats my biggest stresser right now

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  • MisstoMrsWeber
    Super October 2016
    MisstoMrsWeber ·
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    Yes currently in the idgaf mode now... 63 days out as this sometimes great and sometimes not app keeps reminding me lol

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  • NoRushBride
    Dedicated October 2016
    NoRushBride ·
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    Yes, and I'm 50 days out. I'm done. I'm so done. I almost lost my engagement ring picking up the wedding ring. As if that isn't bad enough, my engagement ring is a borrowed family heirloom on his side. I'm so done.

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  • Hailey
    Expert May 2017
    Hailey ·
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    Same boat. Part of it is that I just have little tedious things to do right now. Most of the big things that I can do ahead of time are done. And part of it is that it's hard to plan a wedding when you work 7pm to 7 am and the wedding industry operates from 9-5, when I'm asleep

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  • Soon2BMrsB
    VIP October 2016
    Soon2BMrsB ·
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    Yea I somewhat get that feeling every now and then. I don't mind gushing over positive wedding stuff, but I feel like lately it keeps being negative after negative with so much left to do and not enough time. I just need some help but unfortunately my FH works so much on shift work and we aren't together frequently to get things done. Then I try to accomplish a lot at once and plans fall through. It just makes me really bummed and want it all over with.

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  • Talia
    Dedicated September 2016
    Talia ·
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    I was saying this today... "I can't wait for the day to be hear & for us to enjoy all our hard work & saving".

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  • FutureDonnellie
    Dedicated August 2018
    FutureDonnellie ·
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    I like planning, but some days I just want to not plan. I do have time. I do some wedding stuff for 3 hrs a day, so I don't stress myself out, or my FH.

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  • VeganWifey
    Super September 2016
    VeganWifey ·
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    You are almost there!!!! And the day will be so amazing! I'm the opposite and every time someone (close family) asks what I have to do and how they can help I take them up on it!

    FMIL is painting a few things for me, my mom is setting up late night transportation, and dad is booking ice vendor.

    I went from wanting to be I'm complete control to passing out tasks like its my job lol

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