Hi everyone!
We are getting married in 2021, having a long engagement (2.5 years). Super excited to marry my love, but already looking at the wedding and wondering why there are so many decisions to make! I’ve never really been the kind of girl that dreamt about my wedding, I was more of a tomboy, and so now i keep getting asked questions like: what’s the color scheme? What kind of bouquet & bridesmaid dress styles? But I don’t really care! I feel like I vaguely have a preference (no Halloween colors for me) but no where near strong enough to say definitely this or that.
Does anyone else else feel this way? I’m super far out still but we’re starting to look at venues and my bridesmaids want some decisions made too haha. I think my fiancé is worried I’ll just go with what they like or my family likes but I kinda feel as long as I’m surrounded by the people I love and we have a good time, the rest doesn’t matter. How did y’all choose if it wasn’t something that mattered a lot to you?