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kav1994
Devoted July 2016

Sister is my MOH..but doesn't care? *vent*

kav1994, on March 2, 2016 at 10:38 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

So my sister is my MOH BUT she is completely unsupportive. I am not a bridezilla, I don't boss her around or treat her poorly. She lives in another state so I don't ask a lot of her, except for her opinions/thoughts on things. Every time I call to ask her opinion (which is not a lot)....she is so...

So my sister is my MOH BUT she is completely unsupportive. I am not a bridezilla, I don't boss her around or treat her poorly. She lives in another state so I don't ask a lot of her, except for her opinions/thoughts on things. Every time I call to ask her opinion (which is not a lot)....she is so annoyed...she has told me that she doesn't care and doesn't want to talk about the wedding. When I told her the bridesmaid dress/shoe combination....she told me it was completely hideous (that's fine if she doesn't like it)...but then told me that is a huge mistake, and I have no taste, etc etc. She said she refused to wear it. She has never once cared about me, or what I think. (again, not that is all about me me me me me, but at least show that you care that it's my day??) She just does not care. She has always tended to be a more self-centered person, but it hurts that my own sister doesn't even wanna talk about wedding details with me. Random people care more about my wedding than she does

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  • Anita
    Savvy February 2017
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    My mom gave the same advice as yours!!!

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  • Liz827
    Super November 2017
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    We have the same sister, pretty sure of it! We are all related, awesome! My sister is in the same boat as the "ew I don't want to wear navy blue, thats an ugly color. When your ceremony is over I"m changing" category. I feel ya girl! My sister also lives in vegas and I'm in FL. I would just stop talking to her about it for a while. Maybe have you mom talk to her?

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  • MrsBurns
    Expert June 2016
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    Does she like your FH? Do they have a good relationship? That's weird just because she's your sister doesn't mean she has to be in your wedding.

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  • LiveLaughKraft
    Super July 2016
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    I am sharing a similar situation but it's my FH sister, I have no siblings so this is a subject I am very new to dealing with. I feel your pain and I am so sorry you have to deal with this, with that being said, learn from my mistakes don't ask her if she still wants to be your MOH, it will just piss her off, if you feel a certain way, express that to her or just ask your mom for the questions you wanted to ask her or even your FH that's basically what I had to do. I hope this all works out for you

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  • Sqwiggy
    VIP April 2016
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    It's sounds like she was selfish before the wedding not sure why you expected that to change.

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