Here are my choices:
1. just have the youngest sister in it and deal with the drama
2. have all the sisters except the one with kids, (which btw the one with kids said "uh yeah I'm going to be in your wedding")
3. Have all of them in it anyway and have the bridal party be 9 guys and 12 girls, but then my own family will think I caved into the pressure
I know everyone says "no one is really wanting to be a bridesmaid", but these girls are VERY different and a lot of pressure is coming from my mother-in-law who on her wedding day was forced to have her sisters-in-law be in her wedding by her own mother-in-law. Advice please! My fiancé and I are freaking out!