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should she give the ring back??

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Angela, on September 20, 2009 at 5:02 PM

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hello, my ww family. question....i have a cousin who is getting married a month before me. she's not sure if she wants to get married now. she so excited at first, i don't know what happen. we were doing the buddy system. she wants to tell her fh that she thinks she's not ready but stills wants to...

Hello, my ww family. question....i have a cousin who is getting married a month before me. she's not sure if she wants to get married now. she so excited at first, i don't know what happen. we were doing the buddy system. she wants to tell her fh that she thinks she's not ready but stills wants to continue seeing him(he's going to be crush) so i ask her was she going to give the ring back.... (it's a princess cut 3 carat diamond hugh and beautiful i know he paid alot of money for this at littman's, i was there to help him pick it out.)SHE SAID HELL NO. what do u think? i said i think she should, because she's calling it off. involved ur future husband comments in this discussion also.

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Master October 2010
Mrs. Libragurl · on September 23, 2009 at 2:18 PM
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The ring should be returned if she is ending the relationship....there is a caveat that no one mentioned. If she is absolving the relationship because he cheated on her or there was some sort of abuse then I don't think she needs to return it. But as others have said the law over rules our opinion.
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Just Said Yes October 2009
blbear1004 · on September 23, 2009 at 3:31 PM
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I agree with libragurl.. if she ended the relationship she should give back the ring.. Also, if she is not ready yet she can also just talk to her FH and share with him her concerns..
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Just Said Yes March 2010
aden · on December 28, 2009 at 4:44 PM
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Http://www.askaden.com/2009/12/should-she-return-engagement-ring.html
Dear Aden, ***@*******.***
Should I return the engagement ring I was given? My fiancé and I broke up just before the holidays. We were engaged for 2 years and never really got serious about planning a wedding. The breakup was pretty much a mutual thing, I want more from a relationship and more from a husband and he is comfortable with his life as it is. We drifted apart and rather than push each other to change or try to compromise we ended it. My question is I really love my engagement ring and now my ex Jacob has asked for it back. After 2 years I feel like I have earned the ring. I really want to be friends with my ex, but I find it very upsetting that he wants the ring back that was a gift and is MINE! I am not asking for all the gifts back that I gave him over the last 2 years. Don’t you think I should be allowed to keep my ring, after all, it’s my ring.
- Tanya
Dear Tanya,
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Juanita · on May 19, 2010 at 9:47 PM
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Give it back if the engagement is off. if the wedding is postponed but the engagement is on, its still his until you marry but wear it and focus on the relationship.
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