Hey Ladies. So I need your insight...
My cousin is one of my BM's. I love her dearly, we were practically raised as sisters. However, I am in the process of picking bridesmaid dresses for my ladies and she sends me a screenshot of a dress that she liked and wants to order to wear in the wedding and also she says that this is what she can afford. No lie, the dress is gorgeous, but does not match the style or material that I am choosing for my ladies. If any of you read one of my previous posts about the BM's and their dresses, you will know how frustrated I am with this. So again, my cousin says that she can only afford the dress that she sent me on the picture, BUT I choose to not believe this because she shops for EVERYTHING ELSE ALL OF THE TIME! She has even offered to throw me and my FH a party at her house and pay for a DJ and catering, and rent tables and chairs etc so it can be a "soiree". So she is willing to pay for all of that which is way more expensive that her BM dress. I don't understand it. I even told her, don't throw any "soiree", I'd rather you be able to pay for your dress. So the past week or so, I am feeling compelled to pay for her BM dress and I really don't want to because I know her, she CAN afford it. I don't want to be played or used either. What are your thoughts ladies?
