An old friend of mine is performing my wedding, I've known her since first grade or earlier. I'm having a destination wedding so she has to fly in and stay in a hotel for the wedding, and she's coming by herself (without her boyfriend). Should I ask her if she wants to come along for hair and makeup on the wedding day? I have 3 bridesmaids my mom who will be going to a salon, but my hair and makeup will be done at the wedding location. I would just feel bad if my officiant is sitting in her hotel all day by herself and then has to drive by herself to the wedding. She knows one of the groomsmen and one of my bridesmaids but doesn’t see them often since she lives far away now. Those are the only people at the wedding that she’ll know. I am getting a boutonniere for her to wear so she will have flowers. Should I ask if she wants to come to the salon? I’d be happy to pay for her.