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GrayCatVintage
Master October 2015

Should I have two "guest books"?

GrayCatVintage, on September 15, 2014 at 6:47 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5

I booked a photo booth over the weekend and the attendant will stay for three hours and make us a guest book. She will direct people into the booth, then make two copies of photo strips and the guests can sign them. I am SO EXCITED about this because I think the guests - even grandmothers will enjoy it and it will double as a favor.

My question is should I have a real guestbook as well? Like where someone can write something nice for us since they cannot really do that in the photo book? What do you think?

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Latest activity by Barbara, on September 15, 2014 at 10:44 PM
  • Heather A
    Master September 2014
    Heather A ·
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    I would not do this. I had a nice photobook guest book that I spent like $60 on and I had a thumpprint guest book. Barely anyone signed the real guest book and if they did they literally only wrote their names.

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  • Snarky
    Master September 2014
    Snarky ·
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    ^^ What heather said

    ETA: I had the kind that you can hang on the wall. All they had to do was sign their name on it. Basically no one did and my Mom ended up carrying it around the reception asking people to sign it lol (which I didn't not know she did nor would I have liked her to)

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  • Rebecca
    VIP June 2015
    Rebecca ·
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    Formal guest books don't really work anymore, and aren't really necessary in the digital age... think about not having camera phones or digital cameras, and then you need a guest book because you're not sure who all was there. Today, you have online RSVPs, you have tons of photos, FB, and other mechanisms to track it. Most people just sign their names,and you won't ever look at it again.

    Consider a wishing tree instead... people take a small tag and write a wish for you and your new husband, advice, or a kind note and they hang it on the branches of a tabletop tree or vase filled with branches... a Dutch tradition I find charming ,and lets people share a sentiment with you that they wouldn't write into a guest book.

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  • kalamityjen
    VIP August 2015
    kalamityjen ·
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    I'm going to do a "guest book" tablecloth. I'm going to ask everyone to sign their names on the table cloth and then I'll embroider them onto it in the months after the wedding. I saw it on pintrest or somewhere and remembered that as a kid, my grandma had done that with the Thanksgiving tablecloth. It was so fun to reread everyone's names every Thanksgiving. Plus it will give me a project for after the wedding when I get all sad about not having any more projects to do!

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
    Barbara ·
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    Agree with Heather-- keep it as simple as possible, b/c guests will only do one or the other, and so then you'll have two half guest books rather than one (mostly) complete one.

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