So, I've been working on selecting my bridal party.
I do have one friends, that I've know my entire life but she will give me the biggest headache. She doesn't like to take direction and can be very difficult to work with. We go on a girls trip every year with about 8-10 girls, and she's by far the most difficult. We also went to a friend's wedding last year, the whole time from ceremony to the end of the reception she complained. I express my concerns to FH, and he suggested that I send her a picture of a bridesmaid dress that she may not like and see her reaction to it. If she's supportive, then maybe she will be supportive during the wedding process. I did it, and she passed with flying colors.
I decided to send out a text to all my potential bridesmaids stating my expectations for them regarding helping me, paying for their dress, and attitude expectations. I stated that if they can't meet my expectation, that there will be no hard feelings. Everyone replied, except for my trouble-maker friend. It's been 3 days.
She express to me multiple times prior to any of this that she expects to be part of the bridal party.
SO...
FH thinks I should reach out and see if she wants to do it or not.
I feel like no-response is a response, and I don't want to make it any weirder by contacting her about it if she doesn't want to be in the bridal party.
Contact or don't contact?