should i care what color shoes my bridesmaids wear? cause i dont.

I wanted them all identical, but thats just how i am. really dont care about the dress, at all, but i love shoes and i wanted them to be identical. To be fair about it, i did buy them. Its up to you just how important it is.

Thanks for all the great input ladies! I will probably put some guidlines on it, at least color I think! gracias

My girls shoes match! but we all got together and chose the heel height, and style. my only preference were they are white and matching. i paid for them so the girls didnt mind at all! they love them! plus it was something else we could all hang and have fun together with.

What I did was ask everyone to wear silver shoes in any style. This ended up ranging from heels to flats, and even a pair of silver tennis shoes (my one friend has leg braces and can't do dress shoes). It all went together just fine.

The only request I had for my girls shoes is that they are silver. Their shoes will be showing but I know some are comfortable in heels and others in flats. So aside from the color I really don't care what they wear.

I'm the girl that wears stripper shoes unless suggested otherwise so I would just give them guidelines, (ie: heel/flat, heel height, color palette, bling/no bling, theme?)

I don't know why you wouldn't care....it's in the details. The photos will tell it.

I just told them black. I've got some preggers, so I wanted them to be comfortable and not trip.

I would put some sort of guideline...even if it's "no stripper shoes"

because if stripper shoes is what you don't want, that's what someone will pick. I've seen two different weddings where there were no guidelines on the shoes and one of the bridesmaids showed up in sky high glittered plasticy pumps. Bad.

I don't care what kind of shoes they wear. To me, their comfort is more important than anything else so it's all good!

I just said "whatever, wear black shoes" but my girls are in ball gowns

Let me put it this way: I had to go find a picture even to remember what shoes my MOH wore!

I have all my BM's in nude pumps. The only guideline I set was nude and no more than 4 inches. I think that's a fair height. They can do peep toe, closed toe, different shades of nude, but nude!