Should I cancel my wedding?

I think this is a bigger issue than any of us can help you with. You two should go see a couples counsellor ASAP to sort this out. Good luck!

Talk to him, not us.

Some WW girls have entered their marriages with this kind of issue and (I guess) are hoping for the best. Others have cancelled. It's your call. Have an honest talk with your fiancé and give it some real thought yourself.

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May I ask what was the lie?

While I cannot tell you what to do, consider why he lied. If he felt that he could not tell you the truth, then he has trust issues with you. And now you have trust issues with him.

I'd try to get to an emergency counseling session.

Does he lie often?

He lied about going fishing when he said he was at work. I never have a problem with him going fishing so now I think that's a lie. I talked to him about it and he apologized and of course, wants to go on with the wedding. My mind is spinning and I have no motivation to finish the planning right now.

@Belle Do you have reason to believe that he is lying about what he was doing? Or do you want to cancel the wedding because he lied about going fishing…?

I would go to counseling Monday and find out why he lied. It could be a fluke but it could also be a sign of dishonesty.. Just have some serious talks!

You need to have a serious talk with him. there is no reason to lie about where you are, unless he just needs time alone with the stress of the wedding. has he given you any reason not to trust him before?

Maybe he lied about going fishing because he didn't want you to know he was nervous about the upcoming wedding and needed some time alone. Maybe he didn't want you to worry that he was nervous..

Yes none of us can really help you with this issue. Like other posters have said, was this the first time he lied? If you don't think he went fishing what do you think he did? You need to talk to him about this and not us since we don't know your relationship and any previous issues you have had.

There's a ton of other factors. Is this the first time he's lied to you? What was his reason for lying? Have you ever had reason to not trust him? How did he react when you confronted him about it? Is he apologetic or is he blowing it off? Is this the only thing giving you doubts?