Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Just Said Yes May 2018

Should I ask my future sister-in-law to be my MOH??

Flag
Hide content

Kelly, on September 24, 2017 at 8:08 PM

So my fiancé has one sister. I have no siblings. I don’t even have a best friend. We’re having a wedding with 60 guests and are debating even having a wedding party... but he would like his Brother in law (sisters husband) to be his best man. I was considering having my mom as MOH but she’s never been married and has a lot of other things on her plate and honestly, I wouldn’t trust her with all those responsibilities. My future SIL is a lovely woman and I really like her but we’re not really close. I want to get closer to her though! It would be cute to have both her and her husband be the honored for our Wedding party, but I don’t want to put her in a weird place since we’re not close. Also they live in Cali, FH and I are in NY, with a NY wedding! Idk what to do. Advice please??

Show all

21 Comments

Dedicated December 2017
Amy · on September 25, 2017 at 10:22 AM
Flag

Hide content
I agree with PPs that the MOH does not HAVE to have "responsibilities", but she should be supportive and trustworthy. If you weren't really planning on having a wedding party at all, then you probably don't need to expect your MOH to do much or have responsibilities since you were fine with getting on without one.
- Reply