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Nicole
Expert October 2017

sending invitations to wedding party

Nicole, on May 18, 2017 at 10:23 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 38

So some of our wedding party are expecting to get a wedding invitations in the mail, I feel silly sending an invitation to the bridesmaids and groomsmens who should already know when/where/time of the wedding, and I should know they are going to come so they do not need to rsvp. Are you sending an...

So some of our wedding party are expecting to get a wedding invitations in the mail, I feel silly sending an invitation to the bridesmaids and groomsmens who should already know when/where/time of the wedding, and I should know they are going to come so they do not need to rsvp. Are you sending an invite to your wedding party? Or saving that exta cost?

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
    Sara ·
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    I sent everyone including wedding party and parents an invite.

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  • NatHam
    VIP October 2017
    NatHam ·
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    I will be sending them. I was in a wedding in September and we never got an invite and I thought it was so odd. I actually had to keep asking what time everything was because my fiancé was still attending so I had to figure out what time he should be there for everything. Plus its a nice gesture.

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  • Constance
    VIP October 2017
    Constance ·
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    Yes. It doesn't save that much money.

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  • Paquita
    VIP July 2017
    Paquita ·
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    Yes indeed!

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  • Mai-Tai
    VIP April 2017
    Mai-Tai ·
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    Yes, I sent invite to my bridal party.

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  • Sunshine
    VIP September 2017
    Sunshine ·
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    I put invitations on my fridge so I would be really sad if one of my best friends didn't send me one. I'd honestly be a little offended. I sent one to my sister, who lives with me, legit put it through the mail with a stamp (STD, haven't sent invites yet but will do this again!)

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  • Kayy
    Dedicated June 2017
    Kayy ·
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    I sent them. One of my bridesmaids jokingly texted me once she got hers...."wait was this optional? Smiley winking"

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  • TP2
    Expert July 2017
    TP2 ·
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    I sent my wedding party invitations, but its a regret. That was a waste of our money. Most of them said "i dont need to rsvp since i am in the wedding".

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  • HappilyEverConforti
    Devoted November 2017
    HappilyEverConforti ·
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    Yes, definitely send them!! however, if you want to save on postage maybe hand deliver them?

    that's what we did with our STD... not sure on the invitations themselves though but we may do the same thing

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  • Mrs Abbey
    VIP July 2017
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    I did send invites to my wedding party. You need to know how many they will have with them. My wedding party all have kids so I need the numbers.

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
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    Of course! I'm sending an invitation to everyone except ourselves. Not sending out a few invites isn't going to save you all that much.

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  • Samtoine2017
    VIP May 2017
    Samtoine2017 ·
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    Um...yes. I sent invitations to everyone invited.

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  • W
    Expert August 2017
    WKC ·
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    Sending invites to everyone including parents.

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  • Jacqui
    Super June 2018
    Jacqui ·
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    Of course I'm sending them to my wedding party.... They're honored, but they're still guests.

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  • Sara
    Devoted November 2017
    Sara ·
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    I'm sending them out to the wedding part but they are being hand delivered no reason to pay for postage when I see them all the time

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
    New ·
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    Why wouldn't you invite the people closest to you? Of course I'm sending invitations.

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  • MrsBurkes2020
    Super October 2020
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    Believe it or not ,my Mommy (yes I still call her that Smiley smile )told me that I had to lmbo .So yes you do .

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  • Angelina
    Super July 2017
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    I sent out invites to them! They would definitely appreciate it because they are important people in your lives!

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