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Nicole
Expert October 2017

sending invitations to wedding party

Nicole, on May 18, 2017 at 10:23 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 38

So some of our wedding party are expecting to get a wedding invitations in the mail, I feel silly sending an invitation to the bridesmaids and groomsmens who should already know when/where/time of the wedding, and I should know they are going to come so they do not need to rsvp. Are you sending an invite to your wedding party? Or saving that exta cost?

38 Comments

Latest activity by Angelina, on May 19, 2017 at 11:34 PM
  • BtoB
    Devoted October 2017
    BtoB ·
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    Yes, definitely sending invites to the wedding party.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    You need to send invitations to everyone who is invited to your wedding.

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  • APZ
    VIP March 2017
    APZ ·
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    Absolutely! these are your nearest and dearest people. I even sent one to my parents (who "hosted" the wedding), just because I knew my mom would love getting it in the mail

    ETA: I only got an RSVP card back from about half our BP....I knew they would be there and they knew receiving an invite was a formality- if you are doing plated meals you should definitely send them an rsvp card to account for their meal choices. We did a buffet and stations, so that wasn't required for us.

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  • Mrs. G
    Super July 2017
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    Even though they are in the wedding, they still should receive an invitation. Invites were sent to my wedding party, and some surprised me and put they were bringing a guest. You just never know, plus Im sure your wedding party would like to keep it as a momento.

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  • Rachel
    Super May 2018
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    I am sending invites to everyone invited..

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  • Ella
    Super August 2017
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    Yep, still sending them to everyone who is invited.

    our bridal party generally have the date/city of our wedding but they do not have the exact times and addresses of everything. plus i need their entree choice on the RSVP card. some of them have been invited with plus ones, and i'm not sure if they are bringing any one. it's just easier to have them follow the same RSVP procedures as everyone else.

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  • Amandaw
    VIP April 2018
    Amandaw ·
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    I am sending invites. I think they deserve the same curtsy as the rest of the people invited

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  • TheeOne2Love
    VIP December 2017
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    This literally just happened to me last week. My FH and Daughter were in his aunts wedding but we didnt get an invite. I had no idea about where or what time to do anything. I was so annoyed. You know men are so nonchalant and FH had no details. He asked her and she sent him a PIC of the invitation. I was even more annoyed.

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  • Alicia v.
    Super March 2017
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    "I want to cut costs by not sending my nearest and dearest invitations" said no one with common sense ever

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  • Kristin
    Master January 2034
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    FH is in a wedding next month, an invite came in the mail addressed JUST to me. We were so confused and he was a little hurt because it really made it look like he wasn't invited. To be fair, there's been no communication about where he needs to be and when..... but that could be a whole thread in itself....

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  • Jo
    WeddingWire Administrator May 2015
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    I absolutely encourage sending invitations to the wedding party. They'll need to know times and locations, you'll need to know whether they are bringing a date/plus 1 and whether their date has any dietary restrictions, and they might just want to hold on to your invitation as a keepsake Smiley smile

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  • Celia Milton
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    Yeah, you might save 15 bucks.

    Send them.

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
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    Yes you need to send the bridal party invitations. Especially If you are doing a plated meal, you need to know what meal they chose to have. And they should have all the details on paper too.

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
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    We sent them! Our BP was mostly family so they wanted to keep them.

    I'd think it was really odd if I was in a wedding and didn't receive an invitation

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
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    Of course! They are the VIPs, it would be super weird to skip invitations for them. They will probably be the most excited to receive them out of anyone.

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  • Abby
    Dedicated October 2017
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    Definitely send them. In addition to all the great reasons people have been saying, an invitation is a beautiful keepsake.

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  • Chelsealeigh218
    Super October 2018
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    Agree with PP, this is not where you will get savings, send your wedding party invites.

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  • Teri
    VIP May 2017
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    I sent my wedding party invites.

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  • Amanda
    Master October 2018
    Amanda ·
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    Yes ... for instance my FH was in a wedding a few weeks ago and kept asking me what the invite said ...

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Yes you should absolutely send your wedding party (and parents) wedding invitations!! That is their formal invite, and you'll still need their RSVP and maybe meal choice. No matter what, they should still get an official invite!

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