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Selfie Obsession - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:46 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 62
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Just how bad of a sin do you think selfie obsession is? Smiley winking When you scroll through their instagram, if it's all selfies do you panic?

Selfie Obsession - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?


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Latest activity by Sweetness, on December 25, 2020 at 10:58 AM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    This might sound petty, but deal breaker for me. Posting nothing but selfies is kinda weird and vain, in my opinion

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I'd be annoyed but no not a deal breaker aha
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  • H
    Super September 2019
    H ·
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    I mean, if he was conceited, deal breaker. But otherwise, I wouldn't care.
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Not a deal breaker. Doesn't bother me

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  • Tamera
    Expert May 2020
    Tamera ·
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    Not an issue for me, since FH hates social media, but it would definitely be a red flag otherwise. I understand liking how you look and wanting to share that, but I think other things are a little more important, and that's what I like to share.

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  • Meghan
    Rockstar October 2019
    Meghan Online ·
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    Deal breaker! Self absorbed people are gross, and it’s just not cute.
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Warning: My opinion is harsh
    Deal breaker if their photos were ALL selfies. What about photos with your loved ones or experiences you’ve had, or even something you’re passionate about? I don’t mind selfies but if that’s all they had I would think they’re either self absorbed or very boring.
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    Deal breaker. I couldn't be with a guy who posted selfies all the time.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    I don't care about Instagram that much. It'd be weird but Id need more self absorbed behavior than that to worry
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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    Probably a deal breaker. Being self-obsessed often is a sign or narcissism and I have already spent two years of my life with a narcissist in the past. No thank you.

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    Not selfies but I post a lot on social media about food and coffee (my camera roll is basically a food log). I’m obsessed with occasionally taking pictures with food sipping a coffee or housing a burger) but I normally get a friend to take them.


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  • Kellie Martinez
    Super October 2019
    Kellie Martinez ·
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    I don't think it really matters lol.

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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
    Denise ·
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    Deal Breaker. Don't get me wrong I love my phone and I love to take selfies but constantly taking and posting selfies? Ick

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  • April
    Dedicated November 2020
    April ·
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    Deal breaker
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Not a deal breaker but annoying. My guy isn't a selfie taker, but is ALWAYS glued to his phone and it drives me crazy

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  • Birdie
    Savvy March 2020
    Birdie ·
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    Deal Breaker. I would be annoyed being out with someone who had to selfie constantly.

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  • Laura
    Expert September 2019
    Laura ·
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    I don't mind selfies, but if that's ALL you post on social media that would definitely be a deal breaker for me.

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  • Sara
    Expert October 2020
    Sara ·
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    I'd say deal breaker since most likely they would be a bit self absorbed

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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    This isn’t an issue for us since FH hates pictures of himself, but the social media obsession part of it drives me a little crazy because he’s constantly scrolling through Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, and snap chat 🙄. Being conceited would be a deal breaker, I don’t have time for that drama.
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  • D
    Super July 2020
    D ·
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    Selfie obsession is gross. Deal breaker.
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