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Jessica
Expert September 2017

Seeing each other before the ceremony for pictures?

Jessica, on September 19, 2016 at 11:06 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 33

It seems like everyone is starting to see each other before the ceremony to take pictures and we are having trouble deciding what we want to do! What did you do? If you did a first look, what did you do to make it special? If you waited, what did your guest do while y'all took pictures? We love the...

It seems like everyone is starting to see each other before the ceremony to take pictures and we are having trouble deciding what we want to do! What did you do? If you did a first look, what did you do to make it special? If you waited, what did your guest do while y'all took pictures? We love the idea of being traditional and waiting but also I want to actually look good during pictures! We are having an outside wedding so I want my hair and make up to look as good as it did when I started! I need help!!

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  • A Bride
    Super August 2016
    A Bride ·
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    We didn't really even having a true "first look" since DH picked me up after hair and make-up and we drove together to another location for couple portraits before our ceremony. Morning wedding, so light early in the day was best. I'm all about that lighting!! And it still felt very special walking down the aisle to him.

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  • Lorith
    Master May 2016
    Lorith ·
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    My husband insisted on waiting until the ceremony. I'm so glad we did. The picture of him seeing me, and reaching out taking my hands is my favorite. He doesn't smile much. But when he does it flips my world on its head

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  • Liz
    Savvy July 2017
    Liz ·
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    We aren't doing a first look. Only because I've always dreamt of seeing his reaction to me walking down the aisle. Smiley smile

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  • Rebecca
    Expert December 2016
    Rebecca ·
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    Similar to what @MrsSasswood said.

    We're doing a First Look for several reasons. It fits with our ceremony Processional, it's intimate, it takes the pressure off (ME!), and we can get some photos done then.

    Great article that helped us decide: http://blog.brittanyjanellephotography.com/2012/10/08/first-looks/

    If you're still on the fence, research the reasons for the tradition. You might be surprised and find it doesn't relate to you or your situation.

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  • BoozyBaker
    Master January 2017
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    We're doing a first look. It's one of the parts I'm most excited about!

    It's just us no family so we're basically just having a fabulous photo shoot.

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  • Jessica
    Expert September 2017
    Jessica ·
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    Thanks everyone. I think we may go with the first look! I loved the balloon idea and so did FH!

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  • #ItsBeardTime
    VIP March 2017
    #ItsBeardTime ·
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    I'm doing a first look I'm hopes to enjoy part of cocktail hour with my guests.

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  • Kimi
    Master August 2016
    Kimi ·
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    We did do a first look. They are my favorite pictures from the wedding. I don't even really like the post ceremony "posed" pictures.

    There is a restored 97 yr old wooden carousel near our venue. Since that is unique to our area, that's where we did our pictures. This is one of my favorites, it's actually sitting on our dresser.


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  • Crescent 1894
    VIP March 2016
    Crescent 1894 ·
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    We did a first look. It was so special. One of the most amazing moments of the day, and my favorite pictures!

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  • Jessica
    Expert September 2017
    Jessica ·
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    @Kimi, I love the carousel! That is a beautiful picture! Smiley smile

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  • FutureMrs.Lucas
    VIP September 2018
    FutureMrs.Lucas ·
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    We aren't doing a first look just because we like the tradition of waiting for the ceremony. We are also doing all the pics of the bride and Bridesmaids before and the groom and groomsmen before then while the guests enjoy cocktail hour we will do all the bridal party and just the bride and groom and family pics

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  • MAMW
    VIP August 2013
    MAMW ·
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    We did a first look and were very happy with it. I thought it was a much more private moment than seeing each other while walking down the aisle, and we got all of our pictures (except formal family portraits) out of the way so that we were able to enjoy cocktail hour with everyone. I still was excited to see him when I walked down the aisle - the two moments don't even compare to each other. I definitely recommend it to everyone!

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  • Stephanie928
    Savvy September 2016
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    We didn't do a first look and if I could go back I would def do it. Things got crazy after the ceremony. We didn't get all the pics we wanted, one of the groomsmen changed and no one could find him, it wasted a lot of time. I wish we would have done pictures before.

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