Okay, so I've been debating this since the minute this rock was on my finger! My mother and grandmother are typical southern belles. Opinonated and not afraid to share those opinons no matter how much I wish they wouldn't. I have been dreading going down shopping since I gained 60lbs during chemo and I know it's going to be a nightmare.
I have kicked around the idea of just taking my MOH with me and doing a bit of pre-shopping so I know what will look good and what definatly won't. That way there's less commentary and I'm less likely to burst into either rage or tears or both. I already hate clothes shopping and I know that bridal gown sizes are like....three times your normal dress size and I'm already hating it!
The problem is that if my mom and grandmother ever found out they would be SO HURT and I would feel terrible!
What should I do?