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Beginner April 2018

Second guessing wedding dress

Hannah, on March 16, 2018 at 9:18 PM

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I have to be honest - I’m a little over a month out from my wedding and I’m not really crazy about my dress anymore. Has anybody ever experienced this before? My FH keeps telling me to buy another one because he wants me to be happy and everything to be perfect but I DO NOT just want to throw all...
I have to be honest - I’m a little over a month out from my wedding and I’m not really crazy about my dress anymore. Smiley atonished Has anybody ever experienced this before? My FH keeps telling me to buy another one because he wants me to be happy and everything to be perfect but I DO NOT just want to throw all that down the drain. Any thoughts?? Just want to know if I’m the only crazy one that didn’t have that “this is the one” moment.

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    Beginner April 2018
    Hannah ·
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    Your dress is gorgeous!!!! You have nothing to second guess either. Thank you for your encouraging words. We can't be so hard on ourselves. I'm pulling a small dislike out of this dress and turning it into the biggest deal ever. The only thing is I feel it makes it look discolored. But after reading all of these comments and talking to my FH about it last night I realize how silly I'm being. Like you and some others said - I initially chose this dress for a reason!! I'm reminding myself of that. And I'm reminding myself our FH's are marrying us for a reason and would probably think we would be just as beautiful if we walked down in rags. It sounds cliche but he told me last night "the dress you picked won't be beautiful because of how it looks - it will be beautiful because of who is wearing it." Please know that nobody is going to be looking at your arms - they are looking at YOU as a whole and you look beautiful in your dress and everyone will think they same Smiley smile

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    Beginner April 2018
    Hannah ·
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    Do you mind me asking how much you spent on the second one? My brother in law had mentioned doing that too and that's kind of my dilemma is this dress hurts my shoulders a little and m wondering if that's putting a negative thought in my head. I was just wondering if you bought a full blown second wedding dress or more like a party dress

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    Dedicated August 2018
    Jeana ·
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    Your dress is beautiful I love the beading on it. I bought my dress and still have it, fell out of love with it and bought a second one and now I don't think I like either of them smh, I am so stressed out..... not quite sure what to do from here. Trust me you are not the only ones second guessing I think most of us have that moment. In either dress I did not get that feeling of "This is the one" only because I really don't think for me that line exist.

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  • FinallyMrsFlax
    Super August 2017
    FinallyMrsFlax ·
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    I think it happens to a lot of brides. For what it is worth, I think you look beautiful in your current dress.
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  • Cheryl&rock
    VIP June 2019
    Cheryl&rock ·
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    Wow, your dress is beautiful and fits you like a glove!!!! No need to change!!! You look amazing!!!
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