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Lauren
Dedicated September 2020

"Screw it" phase, anyone?

Lauren, on June 18, 2020 at 12:57 AM

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Thanks to the COVID-19 Pandemic, followed up with all this other negativity in the world, on top of trying to plan a successful wedding out of state, where half my bridal party and all my family live in the wedding state and the others live where I live, I am getting to the stage where I just want...

Thanks to the COVID-19 Pandemic, followed up with all this other negativity in the world, on top of trying to plan a successful wedding out of state, where half my bridal party and all my family live in the wedding state and the others live where I live, I am getting to the stage where I just want to say "screw it! I am going to go to a Vegas Chapel and get this day over with." Woof! I know looking back I would regret that decision, but I feel so overwhelmed with little details that I feel like I can't handle and just want to throw in the towel and marry my man. I know its my wedding but I am accustom to making sure everyone in attendance and in the event are as satisfied/ happy as I am. Currently dealing with Bridesmaids dress being all across the board dark green wise, an aunt who wants to do the flowers for the wedding but not sure about her skill level, a cousin who is a DJ but don't know if DJing is in the cards for him or what comes with that and if not what the sound system will look like, and other small stuff that are actually kinda big stuff.

I know I can't be the only bride who has gone through this phase.

Please tell me I am not the only bride who has felt so overwhelmed at some point during the planning process that they want to throw in the towel to the whole show?

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    I’ve been in that phase since we postponed and dont see that changing. Covid really sucked all the fun out of this. Planning a wedding is supposed to be fun, but its just plain stressful now. I’ve considered cancelling, postponing again, anything to just make it go away lol. But I think us Corona brides need to remember it may not be perfect or exactly what we planned but it will still be a special day no matter what Smiley smile
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