savethedates went out, now a friend has unfollowed me on all social!

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I agree with what Makeda said

This is so odd! As the other ladies suggested, I would try to ask her what the issue is. If she refuses to act like an adult and discus her issue with you, I would just let it go. I am sure there is some sort of jealousy behind this though.

That stinks! I wouldn’t really worry about it girl, her loss, honestly! And we are getting married the same day! Coolio! 😎

I agree with PP's who said to ask her what is going on, but only if you want to. My SIL (my brother's wife) did the same to me, but it happened last month. She did it to me after RSVP's were sent back. My wedding is now 13 days away and I don't even want her there with her attitude and with what she's said about me and my family, but since she's my brother's wife and they have already RSVPed, I'm sucking it up and hoping she doesn't cause issues.

If your friend keeps acting the way she is, don't invite her. Forget her and enjoy your planning process

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Wait, your SOs are best friends? Then yes, of course you need to invite her as his SO, unless you're uninviting him as well.

Even if you do invite her, it seems unlikely she’d come. I’d talk to your FH though and see what he wants to do since you said they’re best friends.

View Quoted Comment That's a good point. Better to communicate then assume

If she's important to you, or Your significant other, then I would say communicate directly. Such as you noticed that she unfollowed / blocked you. And is there anything going on that you're not aware of?
I have assumed so much in my life. . Instead of just communicating directly...Because it is easier and safer than being raw and vulnerable and saying that you are sad or hurt over what someone did or said...it is extremely rare that I mean to purposefully offend anyone, but sometimes I do without knowing it. It would be nice if people people tell me me and then I can reassure them that I care about them. We all make assumptions. If she doesn't give you a genuine answer., then she's probably jealous over some factor.
Best wishes to you, above all focus on your own positive energy and enjoy your planning time 💌💝

If she’s not interested in investing her time in you I’d leave it. I only want good vibes and love at my wedding and if you’re blocking me prior to my wedding you probably don’t have good vibes

That’s so strange and immature. She could have at least communicated what was wrong. I wouldn’t even sweat it!

Ask her what's up, if she still decides to be childish, then NOPE she will only be a drama queen if she even comes.

Why don’t you just text or call like nothing happened then you can feel her out. If she seems weird ask her what’s wrong, if she seems fine ask her why she unfriended you. It won’t help to speculate or guess what’s going on, just reach out and say hi

Wow I just read all the other comments! She sounds nuts. And it doesn’t sound like you’re going to figure out what you supposedly did to her. I’d still send an invite, but they’re obviously not going to come. Sounds like you’re tried and she’s just decided she was some problem. You’ve got enough to worry about with the wedding, I wouldn’t put anymore energy into this. Then maybe after the wedding you’ll find out from a mutual friend what this was all about, or maybe not. Doesn’t sounds like she’s someone you’d want as a friend anyways. And what she’s doing to your FH and her husbands relationship is ridiculous