savethedates went out, now a friend has unfollowed me on all social!

I’d ask her what the issue was. Maybe she didn’t receive one and her feelings are hurt ? You could’ve sent it to the wrong address accidentally.

Agreed ^ I’d just ask her what’s up straightaway. If she doesn’t have the decency to respond don’t waste money on her invite. Y’all should be surrounded by people you love on your day, any petty patty’s can stay home.

View Quoted Comment Totally hear you but Definitely didn’t! My fiancée handed it to her and her husband in person bc they were moving from NJ to FL that week, then asked for their new address & I sent them one to that address too! Just to be cute since they hadn’t really received any mail at their new place. She’s not leaving much room for communication, asked my fiancée if her number changed and he said not as far as he knew..Plus it’s our men that are BEST FRIENDS. So awkward and weird to put your husband in that position too, no?

View Quoted Comment Yeah true. I mean I tried to reach out and she’s clearly not interested

View Quoted Comment It really is. I would just reach out to her to get to the bottom of it. It could be something as simple as a miscommunication her thinking you said something you didn’t or gossip. But definitely try to get the reason directly from her.

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I am on Abigail's side. If she doesn't want to be mature and tell you there is something bothering her, then she doesn't need to be there to pout and be petty all the way through the happiest day of your life. One less person you have to feed!

View Quoted Comment I wouldn’t worry about it too much then girl. If they want to be in your life, they won’t act like that. I’m sorry this happened to you, but it sounds like you’re better off. Congratulations on your wedding!!

View Quoted Comment Yeah it’s not the best feeling but whatever, this is clearly a personal issue for her. You’re right, onward & upward & down 2 mouths to feed 👌

I would ask her if there was a reason first.

If you tried to reach out to her then) and she didn't respond then I wouldn't try further. It does hurt and I am so sorry that happened. Has your fh asked her husband why?

Thanks girls!!! Appreciate y’all and happy valentines!!

View Quoted Comment Thanks Kristen, he’s calling him when he gets out of work later tonight. I mean my fh told me him and her husband spoke a couple weeks ago and everything seemed fine so 🤷🏻‍♀️ . Not banking on any logical response but we’ll see!

View Quoted Comment Women are crazy. One less person to deal with drama in your life. Ignore her.

View Quoted Comment 🙏 officially letting it go and not being bothered. I have much more important things to worry about, like catching up on all my favorite shows on Bravo.

View Quoted Comment Exactly... And drinking wine. Bye Felicia. If you know you did nothing wrong then your conscious is clear.

Oh, I would definitely not give an invite, that's just me. If people are going to behave in that fashion, they have no place at our wedding.

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Go you!

Sounds like something petty one way or another and if the person isn't mature enough to have a conversation with you about it when you tried to talk about it with her then that's not someone you want at your wedding.

If her SO is your fiance's best friend, yes, you still invite her. Just because shes being weird, doesn't cancel her man's best friend title and privileges. Social media isn't real life.

View Quoted Comment Well guess what Mandi! My fh tried contacting him last night and this morning and now his number is blocked. He sent my man a fb messenger that said “sorry dude happy wife, happy life.”


Do you think that’s real life, Mandi?

Wow! That is really messed up. I know it is going to bother you. I wouldn’t let this situation mess up your wedding. You and fh enjoy, have the time of your life. Don’t let the negativity bother you. Congratulations