My cousin's family is notorious for their terrible planning. It drives the rest of us insane when we have to coordinate with them. My aunt and uncle even missed my cousin's graduation because they mixed up am and pm. WHO GRADUATES AT 11PM?!?
OK, so he's engaged and the rumor is they're getting married on Labor Day weekend. They had a baby a couple 1 month ago and even the planning for that was crazy. They have so much going on I don't want to ask my cousin about the wedding (especially since it wouldn't shock me if it was postponed due to the baby) and asking his parents is not an option.
I know it's is 6 months away and there's no etiquette in their world, but it's a holiday weekend and attending will involve traveling. I'm getting frustrated and trying to decide how to handle my own plans. I have other friends who are getting married and trying to schedule bachelorettes but I don't like holding the date without at least a verbal STD.
What to do?
