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Devoted May 2018

Save the Date but no invite!

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TheNextMrsJohnson, on January 3, 2018 at 7:35 PM

The daughter of an old friend of mine is getting married next month. I received a STD but no invite to the wedding. Which is no big deal at all since I have no contact with them besides FB. Last physically spent time with them 6+ years ago(they live next state over) Would you send a gift or anything...

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Expert March 2018
Samantha · on January 4, 2018 at 7:33 PM
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If I didn’t get an invite, I wouldn’t send a gift
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Super October 2018
Tammy · on January 4, 2018 at 7:36 PM
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I received a save the date once and then wasn't invited to the actual wedding it was very strange and I didn't send a gift because I wasn't actually invited to the wedding and it was someone I actually did talk to still at the time. It was weird.
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VIP June 2018
PrincessLawrence · on January 4, 2018 at 7:37 PM
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TBH that is really weird. I know it sounds weird and I am just throwing this out there but do you think maybe it got lost? Or I do know some people don't send out invites and other there wedding website you are supposed to rsvp. I would maybe say something, again may be weird and I am not sure, but I would say something like hey I got your save the date just want to make sure I didn't miss the invitation, no biggy if not.
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Devoted June 2018
teresa · on January 9, 2018 at 9:46 PM
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Sometimes things happen with the mail.
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Savvy September 2018
maggiemoo · on January 11, 2018 at 4:04 PM
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No invite, no gift. But personally I would send a card
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Dedicated June 2018
Jordan · on January 11, 2018 at 6:04 PM
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Nope. Bad taste to send a save the date but no formal invite! yikes!
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