Same venue as sister

Honestly, if my sister were to do that I would be happy for her. Your sister is being selfish. You should definitely not feel terrible it isn't your fault it fell right into your hands. You deserve it ! Congratulations.

I see where she is coming from.. But I understand where you are as well. That's tough!

I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. Your sister is in the wrong. I can't think a rational reason for her to be upset.

First off I'm sorry for your loss

Second your sister is totally out of line she is not the last bride to be married at the location so she can get off her shit

Third have your wedding this is a blessing for you and your FH so enjoy every minute of planning

She's probably pissed you got a discount and she didn't. Does she know you're not upstaging her, that your wedding is after hers? That would be the only issue I could see if yours was before her, but since it's not, she's prob upset about the discount...

I don't get it. If you love your venue you'd want others to love it too, right? I'd be thrilled if someone loved my venue so much, and even more proud that I'm giving business to such good people.

She's being a bridezilla and I guarantee you she'll come to her senses and apologize.

At least she SHOULD.

She needs to get over it and she probably will after more time has passed.

I'd be a little bugged by it too but no two weddings are the same so make it yours, and she will see it's nothing like hers.

Your sister is only pissed because you got discount for the same venue she paid the full price. Hopefully she will get over it.

Hopefully she can realize the error of her ways and get over it. I hope she can eventually be happy for you and support it--you certainly deserve that. Best of luck!

This makes me sad for you. Your sister should be happy for you. I think it's selfish of her to feel any other way. Hopefully she will come to her senses, and realize that you deserve happiness too. It's just a venue...

She is VERY financially stable and always has been. My wedding will be nothing like hers. I won't have the extra amenities she had. I could never afford a wedding that they offer elsewhere without the discount they gave. It is 10% off...nothing too crazy!

I'd be thrilled if my sister wanted to get married where I'm getting married. The only thing I could see why she's upset is because she paid in full and you get a discount - but still, I'd be happy for you. She'll come to her senses, congrats and good luck!!

I'm very sorry for your loss firstly and I'm so excited that you guys made it through..

Secondly! It's not wrong. You did nothing wrong. Your sister is wrong.

But she is your sister and I can understand why she may feel upset (it's childish) but I would just talk to her. But I WOULD NOT change my venue

Sorry for your loss. Im happy you are able to finally get the wedding you deserve. Your sister is being selfish. I would be so happy for you. Its a blessing. Be excited your sister will get over it

She's being ridiculous and hopefully she realizes and apologizes. Good luck and I'm so sorry for your loss

My cousins-who are sisters had the same venue. And I almost used the same venue as my sis due to price (until I found one I couldn't stop thinking about) I think she should get over it. Yours will be completely different than hers.

Congrats! And I'm sorry about your son. Glad you can finally plan and be married!

It's not like you booked the same day, a year later at the same venue and then asked to borrow her wedding gown. She will get over it. You did nothing wrong

I am so sorry for your loss and can only imagine how happy you must be to finally get things started on your long engagement to marry your love, and I agree with PP in that your sister is in the wrong here. My cousin booked the same venue as us the weekend after us and asked me first like I would be upset, and I told them it is not the same day so why would I be? We loved the venue and she is not the only bride to ever have a wedding there, so don't for a second discount your happiness because of her bitterness that you received a discount. November is typically discounted everywhere anyway because early winter wedding isn't in peak season, so she has no room to be upset about that IMO.