Same Venue as Sister-in-Law

I don't think it matters either. Just hopefully your FSIL isn't the type of person that acts like she owns the venue now.

It doesn't matter. If you really like the venue then go for it. My reception venue is the same place my FSIL had her's. Do I care? Not at all.

One of my cousins got bent out of shape when another cousin was planning her wedding at the same location and she actually changed her date and venue. The whole family thought she was nuts to change it. We have a huge family and Buffalo doesn't have that many venue options.

Go with what you like!

If you love it, then go for it. Who cares that your sister-in-law also got married there. You will have the opportunity to make it your own and it will be a special place/event for you and your FH.

I personally don't see a problem. I wouldn't compare (but that's just me) if you love it go for it.

We knew about our venue because my FH had attended a previous wedding there and remembered it being awesome. We decided it was perfect for us and so that's where our reception will be. My cousin who is getting married about 6 months after me is now also looking at it because it's beautiful, close to her house, and cost effective. Do we care? Nope! Their all different weddings regardless if they're at the same place.

Every wedding is different even though the same venue is used all day long every week, every month, year in and year out. They will have different colors, decor, details, and people. So what if your FSIL got married there? That was then.... this is now! If you love the venue, go for it and don't worry about the naysayers.

I think that you should go for it if it is what felt right to you. I would maybe just run it by your FSIL to she has an issue with it. Not saying that if she does you should change it, but just so you know if she will be butt hurt about it or will be cool with it. Besides, it sounds like you didn't know her when she got married, or at least not well enough at that point to have been at the wedding. Hopefully she won't mind and it won't be a problem. Also, its not like you are going to be getting married at the same place as her a week apart or anything, it has been some years.

I don't think it matters and none of your guests will care. Have it where you want it.

I really don't think this is a big deal at all. If anything, I would feel more comfortable using a venue where I knew someone else had their wedding and had a positive experience.

Go for it. We got married at the same place the my BIL got married. Him and his wife were completely cool with us using it as well. They didn't even look anything a like between the two weddings. No one will look at pictures and wonder whos it was.

FBIL and his wife got married at the same venue, but their wedding was 6 years ago. I don't think it's a big deal, but we did check with them first (they didn't care what so ever). If you love the venue, go for it!

I actually think this is a good thing. the sister can tell you about her good or bad experiences, and if you groom loves it then go for it.

not everything about your wedding can be the first time everyone has seen something- I wouldn't worry about it. important part is that you love the place.

I would just go with it if it's the venue you love.

Who cares....most of my family has gotten married in the same church and had their reception in the same gym.

From your perspective I see no problem at all. I am getting married at the same venue as my mom did, 2 years and 1 month earlier. It is a beautiful venue that fits our needs perfectly and since we already have a relationship with the people who work there, planning has been smoother as well. If you're worried about her being upset, just talk to her. If it's your dream venue though, I really wouldn't worry about it. It will be your own special day that reflects you and your FH only.