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Baranpartyof2
Super November 2016

same exact height as my fiance...now what do i do for shoes???

Baranpartyof2, on March 1, 2016 at 8:55 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 46

My fiance is the exact same height as myself. I want to have cute shoes for the wedding but I can't seem to find attractive flats or kitten heels. Who has some good advice? Wearing heels is out of the question. I refuse to tower over my man at the alter!

My fiance is the exact same height as myself. I want to have cute shoes for the wedding but I can't seem to find attractive flats or kitten heels. Who has some good advice? Wearing heels is out of the question. I refuse to tower over my man at the alter!

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  • Breezy
    Super January 2017
    Breezy ·
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    I ordered these Betsey Johnson shoes! They're from the Betsey blue collection! Praying they fit... I hear the run narrow but they don't have a larger size in stock.


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  • Tina
    Super September 2016
    Tina ·
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    I'm 1 1/2" taller than FH and found some cute ballet flats at Kohls and his shoes have a bit of a heel, so we kind of even out there.


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  • Necie
    Expert June 2016
    Necie ·
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    I'm also the same height as FI. Our entire BP is wearing converse


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  • CrystalQueenB
    Master August 2016
    CrystalQueenB ·
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    We're the same height, and I'm still wearing 4'' heels. My shoes are too fabulous not to. I am purchasing flats for our beach photos.

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  • So.Many.Questions
    Expert September 2016
    So.Many.Questions ·
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    Have him put some lifts in his shoes lol

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  • S&J
    Master August 2017
    S&J ·
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    My FH is about two inches taller than me. I plan on wearing at least 4" heels. Personally, I do not like flat shoes with formal wear on me.

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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
    JoRocka ·
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    I'm only an inch shorter... I'm wearing 4" heels.

    Because- I don't give a shit.

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  • amytherese
    Super July 2016
    amytherese ·
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    My FH is also the same height as me. I found 1inch wedges on etsy. I figure his tux shoes will add about the same.

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  • Adoretamm
    Master May 2016
    Adoretamm ·
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    These are my shoes . Have you tried sandals?


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  • BecomingBailey
    VIP August 2016
    BecomingBailey ·
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    I bought blush sparkly flat sandals. I don't want to be as tall as him and I don't want to eat it down the aisle haha. A few awesome sites are polyvore, asos, belk.com and 6pm.com. tons of options and you can narrow the list to exactly what you're looking for.

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  • Sarah H.
    Master September 2016
    Sarah H. ·
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    These are mine. Converse have always been super comfortable for me.


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  • MrsBurns
    Expert June 2016
    MrsBurns ·
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    These are cute and can be your something blue.

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  • Steffane
    Expert November 2016
    Steffane ·
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    I'm wearing these lace flats. They're basically like socks with grips.

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  • tjacob2014
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    Yup I'm with JoRocka. I'm an inch shorter, wearing 3.5" heels. Benefits of being almost 6'2" with heels, no hem on the dress.

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  • Rose
    Expert October 2017
    Rose ·
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    FH is about four inches taller so the shoes i originally picked out didn't work. I tried on all my various heels and stood next to him till I found one I like but it's a pain trying to find a cute kitten heel in gold. Try touch by nina, they have a couple cute ones.

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  • ChildressAtLast
    VIP June 2016
    ChildressAtLast ·
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    I am the same height as fh and I found a pair of sequined flats from payless for $5 that look gold in some light and silver in others.

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  • Emmy
    Master January 2015
    Emmy ·
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    I'm taller, I wore 1.5 inch heels and usually do day to day unless I'm in tennis shoes. Honestly, it didn't matter to me and didn't want to change my look or dress to fit some sort of standard that the woman needs to be smaller than the man. Sorry, I get irritated by this a lot.

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  • MNBride
    Master June 2017
    MNBride ·
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    I'm probably wearing heels and *gasp* will be taller than him. Also Lindsey B I love those shoes.

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  • Ostrichka
    VIP February 2016
    Ostrichka ·
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    I'm about a half inch taller than my DH, but I still wore a 1 1/2 inch wedge. I don't think it's a big deal to be an inch or two taller. Fact of life if you guys are about the same height!

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  • Lara
    Master July 2015
    Lara ·
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    I would rock heels.

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