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Renay
Devoted April 2020

Rude people

Renay, on October 18, 2019 at 8:51 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 22
Just wanted to share a little story from last night that I thought some of you may appreciate. We all have people we don't plan on inviting to our weddings saying "Send me an invite!" Or "I'm invited too, right". It drives me CRAZY. I would never just assume I am invited to someone's day, especially someone I am not close with. We have had several of these so I have gotten pretty good at hiding my annoyance and laughing it off.
But last night I was at the grocery store and the cashier was someone we went to high school with. We weren't friends with her in high school, and have never really liked her. She starts the conversation by asking where he was and I told her that he was out with friends and I got a huge lecture about how she doesn't have time for stuff like that because she works two jobs. What do you say to that? Eventually it goes to how she is engaged now, and I tell her congratulations and she asks when our wedding is. I tell her and she tells me they haven't picked a day yet. Then (as I am paying) she says "You know, no offense to you, but we did the opposite thing. I've thinned down since high school, and you PLUMPED up" .... Seriously? I said yes, I did, I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease and issues with my thyroid. Even the lady behind me looked like she wanted to punch her. THEN as I am putting my bags in the cart she says "I'll send you my address on FB so you can send me an invite!" and she actually did!!Smiley amazing

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Latest activity by Mandee, on October 19, 2019 at 7:25 AM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Wow!! Unfortunately some people were not raised do you know when to keep their mouth shut. I would simply ignore her and I would respond to her Facebook message. It doesn’t sound like someone you want to invite anyway. And maybe find a new grocery store so you don’t have to run into her again 😊
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  • Mrs. Bubba
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    Block her on FB. She’s beyond rude, she’s clueless.
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  • M
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    Melle ·
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    Wow that's unfortunate. And annoying. Sorry she said that to you because thats rude. You're beautiful.
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  • N
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    People amaze me sometimes, I swear. Don't let that ridiculous comment of hers get to you, the nerve of some people. She obviously sounds like she has something to prove "I'm so busy with two jobs, I'm engaged, I've lost weight". Like okay, good for you? Time to switch grocery stores! Smiley xd

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  • M
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    Marcia ·
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    Seriously??? What the hell is wrong with people?
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  • Renay
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    I just kept walking! And I completely ignored her message. Luckily it was the Walmart on the other side of town that I almost never go to!


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  • Alejandra
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    WOW. that girl is an idiot. I’m so sorry that happened. You can just reply with the usual “close family and friends” thing and hopefully she’ll get he message. Or leave her on read. I’m so sorry. :/ don’t let her get to you.
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  • Renay
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    Thats my plan!

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  • Renay
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    Thank you! Smiley heart

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  • Renay
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    Thank goodness its not my usual store! She always acted that way in school too, which is why we were never friends!


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  • Renay
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    Exactly my plan! Leaving her on read and unfriending her. Honestly did not even realize we were still FB friends until then. Usually I just tell people that with the size of his family, we are already over extending our budget and unfortunately don't have room to have everyone.

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  • Rebecca
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    Woww! My jaw actually dropped. That is just absolutely ridiculous and so unnecessary! What is wrong with some people?!

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  • Stephanie
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    Seriously, some nerve!! I just don't get it sometimes how people can be so oblivious to their behavior.

    I remember one weekend I was trying on my dress after getting it bustled with my sister at her house and a friend of hers was coming over which we new but never expected her to actually walk up the stairs to the bedrooms and barged in my room while I had my dress on. My door was closed and I shouldn't have to lock it because my family knew we were busy and her friend took it upon herself to invite herself upstairs. I was LIVID! And she had the nerve to ask if she was invited. Absolutely not!
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  • Cher Horowitz
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    People act like they were raised by cavemen. I'm so sorry she said that awful thing to you! She definitely was rude and totally out of line

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    That's exactly what I was thinking as I read the post!

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  • Renay
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    OMG! I am sure you were! People are ridiculous!

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  • Renay
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    What amazed me the most was how nonchalantly she said it like it wasn't super rude!

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    She is RUDE all around rude. I wouldnt even respond to her Facebook Message. Then when your ready to send invites of course do not invite her at all. She only had negative judge-y things to say about you. You do NOT want that stuff on your wedding day. NO. Maybe you should block her on Facebook or something.

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  • Renay
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    She is most definitely not invited!! I just totally ignored her message, and plan on unfriending her!

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    Seriously. lbs Just why. I swear this time of being engaged you really get to see how people really are

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