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MrsPej
VIP October 2015

RSVPs via text/facebook/snapchat??

MrsPej, on August 6, 2015 at 10:48 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

I'm really excited because we sent out our invitations last week, and people are starting to get them!! We included RSVP cards/envelopes/postage, but also gave the option of RSVP-ing through the WW website we created. I've gotten a couple of RSVPs through the website already (not surprisingly, from...

I'm really excited because we sent out our invitations last week, and people are starting to get them!! We included RSVP cards/envelopes/postage, but also gave the option of RSVP-ing through the WW website we created. I've gotten a couple of RSVPs through the website already (not surprisingly, from the two couples who most recently got married haha - they still feel the RSVP pain). BUT I've also had people send me snapchats, text messages and FB messages, in which they say things like - can't wait to celebrate with you, ya we'll definitely be there, etc. Do I consider these "RSVPs"? Or should I wait for them to RSVP in one of the formal ways? This is probably a stupid question but honestly I don't know lol.


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  • MrsTex
    Super October 2015
    MrsTex ·
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    I'd prefer the card, but at this point after hearing all the horror stories I think I would take anything. If they change their mind it's not going to matter how they first replied anyway.

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  • SweetBean
    VIP November 2015
    SweetBean ·
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    I'm with the majority. I would say that's great but please send me your card back.

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  • Alyssacuse
    Devoted September 2015
    Alyssacuse ·
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    My FSIL's and one of my bridesmaids sent me snapchat pics of the rsvp card with their names/attending box checked, but it was more of a joke/excited thing. They gave me the actual card back, thankfully. I've gotten a few FB chats and gchat messages saying "oh we're planning on coming" and I usually say "great, can't wait to receive your RSVP in the mail!".

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  • AthenaKay
    Master June 2015
    AthenaKay ·
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    I would respond with "Yay! So glad you'll be there! I look forward to seeing your RSVP in the mail Smiley smile "

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