My RSVP deadline is today! For reference: I invited 107 guests and have received RSVPs for 38 people. 31 are attending and 7 have declined. I'm giving them a few more days, then at the end of this week and next week I will be contacting people. We did an online RSVP option at Zola.com. I have gotten some verbal yes and nos from people, but I didn't want to RSVP for them until after the date. We will have to contact around 40 people to find out if their party is attending. I'm really not annoyed because I'm not surprised at all.