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RSVPs and no shows

Erin, on May 19, 2013 at 8:32 PM

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I went to a wedding recently that was from my best estimates a $60/ person reception. I noticed A LOT of empty seats (reception for 110 people and about 15 no shows) it was pretty noticeable. And a few people left before dinner was even served, it was like they just stopped by at a backyard picnic....

I went to a wedding recently that was from my best estimates a $60/ person reception. I noticed A LOT of empty seats (reception for 110 people and about 15 no shows) it was pretty noticeable. And a few people left before dinner was even served, it was like they just stopped by at a backyard picnic. Anyways my fiancé and I are scared that we are going up end up paying for a lot of food for people that don't show up. This is a second wedding for both of us and we are footing the bill for everything. I am trying to save everywhere possible and this would be really upsetting.

Does this happen a lot? I will be pretty irritated if we have the same numbers. For us that could mean the cost of a photographer, or a DJ. What is your experience? What advice would you have?

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  • Annie
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    I have some cousins in mind that I'm pretty sure are going to respond yes with no intention of coming. If that really does happen, then next time i see them I'm gonna tell them they owe me $56.00 each. I know that they won't really pay it but I'm gonna say it just so they know I'm pissed.

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  • ... just add coffee
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    Lol @Buffee - thank you!! Smiley smile

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    Savvy July 2013
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    I am experiencing this right now. Since Wednesday, 6 people have canceled - 4 due to illness, totally understandable, the other 2 said they didn't realize they couldn't bring their kids, it was written on the invite as ADULT seats so did you think we were going to change our minds? Not to mention I'm sure there are at least a few who say they're coming and won't show up. It's so frustrating, but I just have to think that the people who do come are the ones who truly want to be there.

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