RSVP Card Etiquette

@ CoCo: I am so glad you asked! I was wondering the same thing. We've already had drama from a distant aunt who wants her son's gf (of ONE month) to be invited. We're not sending out our invites yet, but in light of that issue, FH and I wanted to include the "_ seats have been reserved in your honor" on the RSVP. I was afraid people might think it was tacky, but apparently not! Hazzah!

I should have done this... we'll see how much trouble I get into since I didn't!

I wish we had done that on our RSVP cards! Instead people put higher numbers than we expected because the older kids wanted to bring their significant other of 4 months. So then came the awkward moment when we had to tell them they couldn't!

I'm doing the same thing. Here's mine.

That is what we are doing as well for our cards. We have a very tight budget and we don't want people there that we don't know very well. The only way you get a plus one is if you are married, engaged, or living together.

@future_mrs_D that's the boat we're in - 150 capacity with 160 on out list. Majority of which are out of town, so we're hoping they don't come.

FMIL can't say no, so no I look like a heartless bride.

@OTW- I really like yours! How did you get the number pre-printed? I'm going to be mailing out 90 invitations and that number is going to vary. I'm thinking if I order from a site like shutterfly, I won't be able to make multiple different reply cards with different numbers printed. You get what I mean?

Talayia - I'm sorry - that was just a screen shot and I PicArt the numbers and names in.

We had to write it all in.

Here's mine! I had to do that or people would be adding extras and plus ones all over the place haha