rsvp and Enclosure Cards

I dont think it would be tacky. We are doing online rsvp as well and plan on including a card that says rsvp or call us to rsvp. We are trying to save as much money on postage as we can

I think it'd be ok if it's only a few. As Emily pointed out, you could tell people to visit your website or call to RSVP if you want to keep them all the same - I'd guess most of your guests would still RSVP online, and those not so technologically savvy would just call.

We did the same thing for our invitations and saved a lot of money on postage that way. It seemed like such a waste to pay for stamps on return rsvp cards when they could do it online. Most of our guests our younger so we have not had any issues with the online rsvps. However, we left the option for our older guests to call as well.

I don't think so. I think it's totally fine to only send physical RSVPs to older guests or guests that aren't tech savvy.

I think this sounds like a great idea

I am sending everyone the wedding website and anyone who doesn't reply I will just check with them before the wedding. I feel like most people will have someone help them with it anyways.

Good luck

I think it’s thoughtful for you to accommodate anyone in that way. Let’s face it no matter what it is -doing something more than one way can be a PITA - lol -so if you’re willing to go out of your way to do something in more than one way to accommodate someone it’s a thoughtful gesture not a tacky one

I think that is totally fine! Also have you seen the all in one invites on Minted.com? That is what we decided to go with. They are less expensive than traditional invites, but still really beautiful and of good quality. I loved that the RSVP card was part of the invite and super simple to rip off and send back.

We did an online RSVP and didn't offer an RSVP card to anyone. I definitely have some technologically challenged (like no cell phone let alone smart phone or computer) and somehow everyone did get their RSVP in or if not, we followed up with people we didn't hear from any way so it really wasn't a big deal. If you're trying to cut costs, I'd say don't worry about it. Grandma can let your FH's parents know or give you a call. All we had in our invitations was a little business card sized card that said "Kindly RSVP by ___ on our website ______"

I don't think it's offensive, but honestly I would just rework your invites budget to avoid the hassle. I would recommend looking into Ann's Bridal Bargains/ Invitations by Dawn. We got 100 invites and RSVP postcards with envelopes for $85 total (we did catch a sale, they have them often). They're unique, pretty, and were super easy to personalize. We are a low-tech couple (no website, hashtag, registry). It worked really well for us. We spent about the same amount on postage, so it worked out to be around $165 for everything for invites.

We are doing RSVP postcards. We have alot of older guests who will not respond to our website.

I'm considering this idea myself.
My guidelines are anybody born before 1975, that I dont know how they are with technology gets a traditional card.
The more technological savvy people get the wedding website and directions to RSVP online.