Getting married in 3 weeks. I let my friend try my ring on again (she has done before, and yes I know that I my fault so please don't scold about that). She had been drinking so I think her fingers were swollen and when she couldn't get it off she just kept trying hard and harder to get it off. I told her to stop because she was making it worse but she was drunk and wouldn't listen. Her finger is so traumatized now that it is so swollen that it will take DAYS for it to come down enough to get it off. I think she wants to cut it off and I am so devastated but how can I tell someone no about a choice that involves her body? She is scared that the circulation is getting cut off. It looks fine to me, just tight. I'm so sad and scared and angry at myself. FH is in Vegas for bachelor party so no one else to cry to. Anyone have to have their ring cut off? Could you tell after it was soldered back? I'm so sad and stressed and I just don't want to have one more thing to worry about.