Ring Pillow

I think that you can keep it if you really want it. I don't think a ring bearer will want to keep it..lol I want to use one that I can decorate my living room with..One that if I snip here and there, It looks like a regular fancy throw cushion

I don't think the ring bearer is supposed to keep the pillow. If the pillow isn't your thing, people are starting to use ring bowls, which can later be used to hold your jewelry. Here's a link to some: http://www.etsy.com/search_results.php?search_type=category&category=weddings&search_query=ring+bowl

I thought the bride kept everything except for the BM bouquets, the toss bouquet (so you don't have to throw your own), and the toss garter. I am certainly keeping my flower girl basket and ring bearer pillow.