Ring catching on everything - kite shape diamond

It is beautiful, and I'm sorry you're frustrated and it's painful to wear! Looking at the first picture, it seems like it's just very big (as in overall scale, although maybe a little large for the finger too), so of course will move around and stab you as you bend the finger. Is it better when you wear it on the inner side, like the second pic?

I will say, my engagement ring has a reasonably high profile, and at first, like yours, it caught on EVER.Y.THING. I knocked it on things all the time and I was terrified I'd crack the stones. Here it is:

But, over time, I got used to it, and stopped catching it on every living thing. Maybe you just need to give yourself some time to get used to it?

Awww, thank you! And I do think sizing it down will help, because then it will stay where you put it, as opposed to sliding around so much! Hopefully it's more comfortable after that!

I agree with Rosie, it appears the sizing of your rings are a little too big. I don't have the same style ring, mine is pear shaped but I had a sizing issue. It was too loose but not loose enough to size down. There was a time I stopped wearing my ring because I was scared it would just slide off without me realizing it. I took it back to the jeweler who put in "weights", and now the ring fits fine. I would suggest taking it to the jeweler where you purchased the ring, explain the problem, and show the pictures, their in house repair person should offer some suggestions.

I have a pear shaped diamond and I wear the pointed end facing my fingernail. It's also pretty high profile. I used to catch it on everything but eventually just got used to it. It helps, however, that my ring is fit pretty snug to my finger. It sits in one place on my finger so if its not spinning or rocking back and forth and getting caught. I think you should go in and get both resized then soldered and that would probably help. I imagine it will be easier if it sits flush to your finger.

There are some things that might never stop catching on it. My big perpetrators are plastic grocery bags and sweater sleeves when I put my arms through.