If you have a requirement at the wedding why do people feel you said something wrong to them. That’s not even being bridezilla if it was asked in advance and put on invitations. I brought this up before but my guest are required to “wear white” at my wedding bc of my theme. I guess I don’t get why people have issues with what the bride request. To me if you are a friend of the bride what is one day of fun and participating. You would do it for any other event you had to attend such as a white party, masquerade parties etc .. You get my point .. I’m sorry, I’m not arguing with anyone on this, but to me , that’s just rude to the bride in my opinion. It shows support