I already married the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. We got divorced last year after PTSD and a TBI (tramatic brain injury) stole him away from me. The meds he was on made him numb and after a year of fighting neither of us had the energy to keep going. We ended up getting a divorce. I didn't want to but had to protect myself legally.
It's now two years later. We've both done extensive counseling and are now planning on getting remarried next year on our anniversary. (we are spending the next year getting to where we want to be finacially since we live 1,300 miles apart.
I'm struggling with vows. I know I have a year but I have no idea where to start! It's not the same, we've done this. We broke them the first and I feel like they need to be deeper and I want to write mine myself but I'm not good at that!