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Amber
Dedicated September 2017

Reception time limit

Amber, on April 11, 2017 at 12:33 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

Is it rude to put a time limit on when the reception will end? My fiancé and I are getting married on a Friday instead of our original planned Saturday date. The reason is because we are boarding a cruise Saturday afternoon and need driving time. Our ceremony and reception are all in the same place. The ceremony will start at 11 am and on the invitation I want to put that the reception will end at 3pm. We have some other things we have to get done before we leave. All of our guests will be traveling to the wedding I just don't want to seem rude or like I don't want to spend time with them because I do very much. HELP! (Sample invitation)


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Latest activity by VC, on April 11, 2017 at 1:15 PM
  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
    Bemyguest ·
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    My invites said "reception from 5-10" because that's when we have the hall. If yours says something similar, people will just assume that's when the venue needs you out.

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  • ambrok
    Master October 2017
    ambrok ·
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    I plan on putting our end time on the invite also.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    I have never seen an end time on an invitation. I think its unnecessary. When the DJ says they're playing the last song, your guests will know the event is over. Preemptively telling them when they need to get out is kinda "ick" IMO.

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  • Tricia
    VIP October 2017
    Tricia ·
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    All reception end. My Saturday night reception ends at 11. Have the DJ announce the last dance. We aren't putting an end time on our invite.

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  • LH2018
    Dedicated March 2018
    LH2018 ·
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    You can do a "send off" to hint more so that the reception will come to an end at a certain time. It can go a long way on the schedule!

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  • LC
    Expert June 2017
    LC ·
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    I've never seen an end time on an invitation, but most weddings I go to are evening weddings where the end time is just kind of natural as people leave when it gets too late. I think it would be okay to put an end time for an afternoon wedding.

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  • CaboBride2018
    VIP May 2018
    CaboBride2018 ·
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    I don't think you necessarily need an end time on the invitation. I'm sure people won't assume you're planning a late night party when the wedding starts at 11am!

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  • Amanda
    Devoted May 2017
    Amanda ·
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    I don't think putting a time limit is rude at all. Most venues have time limits anyway, so I doubt anyone will feel upset about it

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  • Rebecca
    Super September 2017
    Rebecca ·
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    I don't think it's rude. I put an end time on my reception too!

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    I've never seen it on an invitation, but since you are having a lunch wedding, people will probably leave after you serve the cake. If you have a DJ, have them announce a last song. I wouldn't put anything on the invitations.

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  • VC
    Master May 2017
    VC ·
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    I think it's fine but I did not say it on the invite. I put it on my website in the FAQ section and indicated the end time.

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