Reception entrance song / First dance

So here I am posting again and definitely won’t be the last lol

im having the hardest time finding a grand entrance song that isn’t a dance or fast pace song.
All the slower songs I’ve found are boring and too slow . We don’t want nothing crazy as we literally just want to walk in , plus I hate attention so I definitely don’t want too much attention as a “wild” song would bring expecting me to dance or something lol

mind you we don’t have groomsmen or bridesmaids as it will only be us .

As for first dance , I was thinking to do it after dinner with the rest of our dances and then it can just lead into everyone dance for the night ?

But I’m also stuck between doing it after our grand entrance since everyone’s attention will already be on us ?
I’m stuck on choosing when 😩