So my mom has asked me if we are going to do a small reception like party after our wedding. Its a DW in Vegas, that not everyone can come to. I think its a great idea, FMIL and my dad can't travel so this would be an opportune time to celebrate with us.
We'd hold it in our apartment complex's party room, and mom has already said she'd pay for the food. Music would be off a computer or Ipod, we'd do cupcakes for dessert, and have beer, wine, soda, water. No decorations or dancing, and certainly no gifts.
My question is, i know I'll invite those from our city who are coming to Vegas, but what about co-workers that I get along with well? I don't want to invite everyone, since that would add 40 to the list and we'd like to keep this small due to budget and room. FH may be changing jobs so he may want to invite a friend or two from there, but how do I invite people without offending others?