Ever since I saw our venue I have had a vision in my head of what it would like like when it was OUR day. The reception area (IMO) draws itself to have candles. Each of my centerpieces has candles incorporated in some way. I have 3 different types of centerpieces and two of them have floating candles. All three of them have votives around them.
One of my Aunts has COPD and cannot be around candles. I love my family dearly and cannot imagine causing harm to any of them because of my choices about the wedding. I dont know what i can do to achieve the look that i want without making it unsafe for my aunt to be there. I dont think electronic candles will look right. 
Any ideas would be so helpful!
