My guy is pretty introverted, plus the fact that he's just plain lost touch with his close college buddies in the past few years. So he only has his brother for best man. He doesn't have/want any other groomsmen. There is no changing his mind on this. He doesn't want his Dad, cousin, etc. as filler.
I on the other hand have a sister and four friends I always thought would stand up with me. So that's 5 attendants on my side and 1 on his. Talk about lopsided! What should we do? I've thought about trying to honor my friends in other ways, but they all seem inadequate. I've been bridesmaids to three out of five of these girls. The other two just aren't married yet!
Any ideas?? Should they walk in and then sit down somewhere? Should they light candles? I wish they could do something in the ceremony itself (nothing like guest book attendant etc.), but I can't have FOUR readings.
